Either/Or

Some guys like to know you have your sh** together, yet are just as turned on, if you don’t.

More so – actually – because it makes them feel superior if you are not stronger than the persona they own.

In the quest to find balance in a relationship, this goal can become one-sided.

One person may feel they need to stop growing to keep the other satisfied.

And even if they were told this is what was wanted, they become vilified.

For, ironically, the more dominant will seek a more assertive replacement for the diminutive.

There seems to be no winning once one gives away their power.