Month: November 2024

They had all waivered, but she hadn’t.

She needed someone who wouldn’t.

(Title play with words)

He realized that how he had treated her was unconscionable.

“She discovered that a huge sense of injustice was pervading her reality.”

There’s a hero’s stance
If given half of a chance

Would fall to love’s knees
Yielding in order to please

Yet where greatness resides
Unmet needs fight with pride

Without matching strength
To compliment and guide.

“We are nothing to each other.

We are not friends.

We are not lovers.

We do not even look at each other.

It is as you wanted from the beginning.

We are nothing…” she whispered.

(Title play with words)

Should change, but they don’t.

“I met this amazing younger man who intentionally or inadvertently entrapped and hurt me.

And I let him know with no uncertainty exactly what I had witnessed and experienced, and how it affected me.

I made sure that he took note of it – and told him that this behavior needed to be checked, immediately.

That he can’t just go blundering through life, drawing in and then “accidentally” stepping on a woman’s heart, ignorantly harming others along his life’s journey.

I did this to speak for my heart wound’s bleeding – but it will not help heal it.

And I did this so that he would learn where he is short-sighted, now, in order to work to overcome it.

Hopefully, this will help his own future marrying from greater tragedy.”

“If that’s how you’re gonna be, fine with me.”

To forget what is worth having.

Some men just want to be remembered.

Trapper in wolf’s clothing.

He presented on the surface an air of innocent curiosity, but behind the mask dwelled a man of insidious notoriety.

Why did she feel linked, as if they were bonded, when he did not care for her?

“The fact that he doesn’t realize nor acknowledge the harm that he is causing is alarming!”

What intimacy was meant for.

At some point, Anxious Attachment evolves into Secure Attachment because “it’s all been seen and experienced before.”

There’s a flattened feeling that pervades like depression when someone plays false, then leaves – as if being asked for the minimum reciprocation is a crime against humanity.