Category: Male Bonding
Dear Friend,
“Someday, we may speak privately.
I have no desire to be public except to use this as a means to stay in contact with you.”
Dear Friend,
“Are we both so fragile that we need each other’s presence kept at a safe distance?
What happened to the bravery that has carried us so far to this point?
Barely holding on, I think.
We are still barely holding on.
And the lie is that we are better off, more protected if we stay in our own known quadtants – rather than leaping to risk and allowing ourselves to make a mess of it all for creating a new and better shared existence.
Oh yes, it’s going to take work.
And oh yes, we are going to feel very afraid at times and disiriented.
But we’d have each other – do you hear me clearly?
We’d have each other to build trust with and learn how we can rely on each other in true partnership.”
Tethered Anchor
I will bind my pain to yours and
Pull you to the other side with it
Is It Not Enough?
That we have suffered
And survived suffering
And continue surviving?
(Telomeres – Sleep Token)
The Wall Between Us
One night, she delayed her shower and entered the darklit dream world earlier than usual in a desperate attempt to flee the concussion’s pain.
Yet because she was ahead of schedule, as she came upon the veil’s wall that she usually tried to nightly climb in hopes of catching glimpses of him wherever he could be, she came upon his ladder – still leaning against the wall on her side from where he had crossed over to watch her from a closer distance.
(It Doesn’t Matter – Depeche Mode)
In Jest
The night shirt that she sometimes wore shaped her chest as in Greecian times, puffed out below, and then cinched inward at her wauit in a kind of elegant flump.
She could not help but tease to him that she looked as graceful as a black flan – or perhaps a wrinkly-lined fig fruit- knowing that the images thereby imprinted upon his mind were like playful record scratches.”
(Carrying Your Love With Me – George Straight)
Lift Me Up!
(I Run To You – MISSIO)
We Weren’t Ready
“But what makes us ready?
Surely – do not say that it’s more time!”
Was I Better?
As our projection mirroring reflection
But need for self mastery dominated?
I ask because I, too, reacted yet
We’ve been deceived by the ruse
Me & The Void
Queen Of Athens
Nervous Beginnings
Will our inhibitions keep us stuck in a rut?
What right do they have to mess with us?
Is this what it means by leaping in faith?
But what if we’re frozen stiff at the gate?
How do we propel ourselves into momentum?
Does speaking in code assure of same intentions?
I know desire to kiss you coaxes temptation
But is your approval implied by arrival’s attestation?
If reached out my hand, would you offer yours, too?
If counted one to three, would we crash into
Each other, bonk heads, then laugh all jittery?
I’d like to be smooth, yet awkward is temporary
My Feelings
Fault Lines
When a healer warrior woman
Is paired with a male human
That relationship develops conflict
If her power is seen as threatening
—-
(Title of multiple meanings)
(Where The Heart Is – HAEVN)
And Just Maybe,
He could be the one to take away the pain and let her heart go quiet.
You See,
Any man that she had loved had discarded and/or had blamed her for their sufferings – so regardless of their claims’ lack of validity, she was haunted by the idea that somehow her love was tainted by some sort of poisoning.
No,
“It’s not about money.”
(You Never Give Me Your Money – The Beatles)
Blanched
“Of course I recoiled when I saw you.
You can’t just walk into my scene and expect me to be able to control myself without any warning when I am already fraying at the seams!
Are you here to help me, or just to tease and torment by your leaving?
You make me want to get my hands on you and show you some things about manners!
Then, you wouldn’t be leaving…”
—
(Title & content of multiple meanings)
The Breaking Point
“You know – it takes a lot of strength to maintain my composure and not throw myself upon you – and I just don’t have the muscle strength nor pain tolerance to keep up with these ‘playing it cool’ reservations!”
Holding Space
She always retracted when he came into a room.
He thought that meant she didn’t like him.
But it was because she was so attracted.
It was complicated.
She didn’t want to harm or alter him or his course in any way.
She respected and yet needed him too much.
She would require him to include her in everything.
She couldn’t hold her love back with any measure of balance – and feared its affect upon him.
—
(Title of multiple meanings)
(Back To Friends – Sombr)
Ghosts In The Machine
I feel you there
Waiting, watching
But you are not here
As delaying, debating
Don’t you know?
I want to be altered
Forced to ignore you
My steps falter
(Love Or Nothing – Uriah Heep, 1978)
(Would You Still Want Me – Vermouth IV)
“Get Along Back” (Electronica Dance Groove / Driving Song)
By Athena Stairs, November 9, 2025
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
And they mistake (pause) me for a woman that’s crazed
Ain’t ever seen one on fire that ain’t been insane
But they forget (pause) what makes life feel alive
Is burnin’ passion for love – just give the place and the time
I’m movin’…
I’m groovin’…
I’m movin’ on gettin’ on jumpin’ back on that track
And there ain’t no way baby that they’re draggin’ me back
Because it’s high (pause) time we give that booty a smack
And there ain’t no point to loosin’ if we can’t win it back
I’m movin’…
I’m groovin’…
And there ain’t no point to loosin’ if we can’t win it back
I’m movin’…
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
I’m groovin’…
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
We’re movin’…
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
We’re groovin’…
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
(Get along back)
I’m groovin’…
—
Obviously bumpin’ rhythmically…layered female voicing of one woman of many minds coming into “concert,” etc.
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However,
Her efforts would be pointless
If she were not in return prized
—
(Catch the pun? :D)
Grabbing The Bull’s Horn
She could get knocked off of her path
But she could also reevaluate strategy
Dissolving
Darling – project onto me so that I may aid:
What hooks are still imbedded and pulling?
—
(Title of multiple meanings)
Disclosure
Of course, I fear criticism
But I more fear losing you
You are what is most important
And love’s fragility we’re holding
Compromise
My love, they deceive you to
Keep you enchained believing
In dependence assuring freedom
But your beating heart is bleeding
What better balance may be struck
To guarantee our true love’s luck?
—
(Title of multiple applications)
A Unicorn’s Sword
Symbol’s strength given to
Guard a woman’s chastity
“Only meant for virgins”
Message was for clarity
For the horn becomes more powerful
When it’s shared with the right woman
Honey
Sweet and sticky
Your lies convince
Of giving nourishment
But they are only excuses
Meant to keep your heart safe
After the hive’s been vandalized
Hey – YOU!
“Knock” it off, already
&
Come give me a kiss!
Capricorns I’ve Known
Like unicorns brandishing horns
Climbing to the top of mountains
Bugling their vision unhearing
Other sight having equal merit
What pressures felt to be right
Rooted in earth bound so tight?
Telescopic points of dissuasion
Difficult to budge if bargaining
Goat head-butting forcing truths
Demanding respect’s adherence
Knocking others off their paths
Chiding them for not following
I wonder if they had been raised
With more gentility of generosity
Perhaps they wouldn’t need to worry
About being so righteous in their glory
And my love for them wouldn’t be wasting
Upon sharp stones where it was trampled
Note that I too can
Brandish my horn
—
(Revised from original unposted writing in April)
Unicorn Trauma Bonding
He found her one day
Not realizing she was
Impaled by others’ horns
& Stuck to the Tree of Life
Bleeding out in silence
Trying to hide the pain
Relying on camouflage to
Avoid alerting predators
The shock in her eyes was
Recognition not rejection
Instant pushing away flash
Had been meant to protect
Both him from her desperation
And because she had infection
Kind of hard to exhibit confidence
And go prancing to a most beloved
After unsticking one’s self without
A way to cauterize deep wounding
So he left not understanding that
She wanted most to be with him
Exposure
She knew she ran the risk
Of driving his interest away
By showing more of her hand
Making play perhaps too easy
But she was willing to gamble
For love’s high stakes winning
Fame & Fortune
It wasn’t for the money
It was for shared reality
Needing You
Everything in me twitches
Aching to give us release
Love’s Song
They offer to teach me singing
But my greatest song is loving
Everything about him
Wanting more to hold
This Man
He is dangerous to me
As too easily infiltrates
Passing as if unlocking
Any barrier’s resistance
Yet I am unfraid of damage
Only of his never returning
If He Knew
Would he come back?
Would he speak words
Needed to calm system
So we could both listen?
Honey, please unwind my
Torment-constricted body
Driven insane into rebelling
While control’s fragmenting
You’ve unraveled my coiling
Exposed writhing in daylight
Unable to retract defensively
Wearing my heart on a sleeve
